Wednesday, 26 September 2018

The Future

The Future... "One thing you should be aware of is that at some point, your children will start to ask questions and possibly realise how you have lied and deceived them too....

There will come a point where you cannot control them anymore and this might result in YOU losing them in their adult lives.

This doesn’t seem to matter to you too much right now as you have won your war against the other parent and family by preventing your child from having a loving and healthy relationship with the person you seem to hate more than you love your child"... But you have to realise that this is not only emotional abuse of your childs other side of the family; it is emotional abuse of the child you claim to love!! 

https://medium.com/@SMD_1daycloser/how-to-abduct-and-retain-your-child-a91139915fa0

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There is still opportunity to change this..

Now is the time to put your children first... 

Stop parental child abduction

Stop parental alienation

Stop hostile "parenting"

One Day Closer x

#parentalchildabduction

#parentalalienation

#hostileparenting

#falseallegations

#perjury

#familycourt

#onedaycloser

Tuesday, 11 September 2018

Why do I post on blogs and social media?

Obviously, one HUGE reason I post about parental child abduction and parental alienation is that my daughter was parentally abducted 10 years ago and returned home via Hague proceedings.
I thought this would have been the end of matters but how wrong could I have been?...
The most devious and heinous tactics were used to remove her again a year later and I have not been allowed to see her since... Nor "should" I even talk about details of the case or even her name on this media due to the deception and misuse of the UK family courts..
I was gagged from speaking about the case on any media. I tried to do everything that was asked of me but nothing was changing.. I finally lost my faith in the family court system being a resolution..
Not a day goes by without me thinking of my little girl.. I love her with ALL of my heart!! I will continue to do everything I can to make sure she is reunited with her Dad and paternal family.
Another reason I post so much on the subject is that during the time I have been trying to reunite with my own child, I have spoken to MANY other parents and families that have been affected by parental child abduction and / or parental alienation. I was shocked to see that the situation we find ourselves in is by far an isolated case.
This HAS to be seen as a major problem in the family courts and between jurisdictions
MANY children are abducted and/or alienated from good parents every single day.
These children are used as weapons, pawns and possessions by an abducting/alienating parent that the child is supposed to be able to trust...
Instead they are subjecting the child that they claim to love to a most horrible emotional abuse.. Not to mention the abuse of the left behind family..
Sadly, quite often the authorities and the courts seem to facilitate this behaviour by allowing themselves to be lied to, deceived and manipulated... (why isnt perjury deterred in the family courts?)

If you are blessed enough to have your children with you, imagine what it would be like if you woke in the morning to find that they are no longer there... Imagine not knowing where they have been taken to or if you will ever see them again.
Imagine trying to plead for help from the authorities and they do nothing or very little to help...
Imagine going from day to day trying to be reunited with your child but nothing seems to progress... In fact, the longer it takes, the less concern people seem to show.. All is considered OK...
It is not OK... It never will be OK.. These are emotional abuses that seem to be tolerated..
I hope some of my posts help to raise awareness of some of the issues.. I also hope that you do read some of them and dont get too frustrated with me for posting about the issues so much... If you do, feel free to mute or remove me. I wont take offense... One day closer xxx

Sunday, 9 September 2018

September 10th - World Suicide Prevention Day.... What can you do?


Connect - ask how someone is

If you think someone might be feeling unwell, depressed; don’t be afraid to ask how they are.

 Anyone can experience a mental health problem, so being able to talk about it is important to us all. And you don’t need to be an expert on mental health. Often, small everyday actions can make the biggest difference.

They might want to talk about it, or they might not. But just letting them know they don’t have to avoid the issue with you is important. Just spending time with the person lets them know you care and can help you understand what they’re going through.

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Thoughts today with all who are or who have experienced suicidal thoughts and families that have been affected..

A message for Gautam's daughter who some of my contacts related to parental child abduction / parental alienation may know: your Dad fought to be in your life until his very last breath.. He is not forgotten and NEVER will be.. I hope you will someday know of the love and dedication he had for you.. You were always his angel ... Xx #worldsuicidepreventionday #suicide #talk #connect

Monday, 3 September 2018

False Allegations - Big Brother

I dont know if anybody saw news on the UK show Big Brother the other day but there was an incident on the show where a "celebrity" made a serious allegation against another contestant which resulted in him having a formal warning..

http://www.itv.com/news/2018-09-03/roxanne-pallett-says-she-got-it-wrong-in-ryan-thomas-cbb-punch-row/

I think we could all agree that the allegation was at the very least, grossly exaggerated..

This was placed in the spotlight on national television. Do you not think that this incident could show what often occurs in the family courts as a tool to "win" a case?

It made me sick to my stomach not only the allegation but how the show dealt with it.. A formal warning?? Really??

People who are REALLY victims of domestic violence or violence against women should be just as outraged about this.. It was disgusting...

It seems that now her career is in tatters, she makes a public apology. Sorry for what she did or sorry for the impact it has had on her??? Hmmm.

Interestingly, womens aid are still defending her actions to a point..

https://ladiespassiton.com/2018/09/02/do-not-confuse-malice-with-mental-health